Hi my name is Mike and I met my fiancÚ here in Hawaii about 5 months ago. She's Kiwi and born and raised in NZ. We are in love now and want to get married but we don't to rush into it because we are firm believers in tradition.

I currently work at the Apple Store as a specialist and have a 2 year Associates degree in Liberal Arts. My fiancÚ will move back to New Zealand early next year and I desperately do not want to try and work through a long distance relationship. Could anyone please give me advice as to how I can move to New Zealand to be with her? No one has ever touched my heart the way she does. The thought of us separating hurts me deeply.

Should I get a 3-month visitors pass and extend it after 3 months? I heard if I do that I will not be able to work and I really want to work at some type of computer store. I know I don't have the best job in the world but can someone please give me advice on the options I have in terms of me residing in New Zealand? You can post it here or email me at mikeharleypt@me.com. Thank you all very much and God bless!

Mike Harley