So far, you can only see my little tippy toes Taf

It's a good job my arse is so big it can fit my head and my mouth in it eh? Well, actually you can probably still see my part of my lips coz my gob is so metaphorically big.
Come on guys loosen up. Let's not take ourselves so seriously! This is a great forum, let's prove it

We can take the rough with the smooth, that's what friends do. We're allowed to agree, disagree, provoke, apologise, smile, frown, tut and wink. It's all in the nature of things. We've all had times when someone's said something that's made us wince. People are people and words are, after all, only words.
We've never been into slagging each other off and it has been known for us to rally when someone says something to threaten the comfort we all feel belonging to this little cyber community. But come on, sometimes we all sit around waiting for someone to post something of interest, I've heard several people say it. And that's life isn't it? We don't all spend 24/7 on nail-biting, cliff hangers. It wouldn't be normal.
Sunshine 1 made a few comments that may actually be constructive if we choose to see it that way, regardless of her choice of words. And choice is the order of the day. It's all about frame of mind and what we choose to do with it.
Every now and then one of these raises it's head. Let's just deal with it. She's entitled to her opinion and it may even be constructive. It doesn't read as a negative post to me. Some people only look in from time to time and only read specific items. They don't involve themselves in stuff that seems to involve a specific named circle of friends or acquaintances. It's all objective if we choose to recognise objectivity.
Lots of our members have important experiences to relate but in my opinion, as is human nature, they all have specific ways of relating them. Some make for more interesting reading than others. I know I'm not the only one who skips over some peoples posts because I know they're going to bore me to death. We all make personal choices and there's nothing wrong in that. It's called liberty

it makes us what we are.
Grow up movetonz. We are bigger than this!