I know it always takes forever!
But just be patient, it ll be soooo worth it in the end..
Just dont hassle them at all, as you have applied for a permit under partnership you are going to be prioritized anyway, so it might be quicker than that!
My last visa took over 2 months and usually only takes 1day, but we have to remember that we were naughty

and somehow have to pay for it!
it ll be all good soon, just be patient!!!!