Thanks for your stories guys, it helps to know that other people's OH's can be just as stubborn.
I think a lot of our difficulty (well mine if I'm honest) is that he doesn't communicate - which considering he works in telecommunications is frustrating but I look at his Dad and he talks even less. I am hoping that once he has his next lot of degree exams out of the way - 6-9 May - he may start talking about it then and giving it some time and energy. At least he's not poo-pooed the idea and is willing to give it consideration and money given that he wants to do a reccy.
This forum is great as you can vent frustration somewhere and someone replies with their version and you realise that you're not alone.
Thanks again
Jane
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