[ebianca]

Ohhhhh Shell.

Sorry to hear about your Grandma- must be hard even if you weren't close.

You seem to be in an awful situation at the moment and only you will know what the best thing to do is.

Have you sat down and talked to your Mum about how you are feeling?

There is also a possibility- if your mum would want to that is..........once you have been in NZ on PR for 3 years you could sponsor your mum and she could come and live out there with you- that would give her something to look forward to after retirement and also you would feel better that although she is on her own that she wouldn't be for too long.

Just a suggestion- it might not be something that will work for you but the option is always there.

I think the first thing to do is talk to you mum about how you are both feeling about the idea of NZ and o from there.

I'm sure whatever descision you make will be the right one for you and yours.