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Originally Posted by kokopeli
Hi Nicky,
I have some friends who talked about moving to NZ, but decided not to for many of the reasons you describe. I think a lot of people on the forum will feel some empathy with your hubby. Moving to the other side of the world is about as big an adventure as you can get, so I think some trepidation is inevitable.
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It's fine when 2 people have discussed the subject and decided against going, but unfortunately Nicky's hubby has strung her along for a while now, leading her to believe that they were going. He should have been big enough at the outset to say that he felt he just couldn't go (which is his right) and not dither around, giving her false hopes.
Some people just can't let go of their safety net without setting a firecracker underneath them and, unfortunately, this may be the situation here. Tlhere's no denying it's a huge undertaking and very daunting, but he should have played fair with her from the beginning.
Just my thoughts
