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Old 14-11-2007, 09:33 AM
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Ohhhhh Nicky.

I feel for you. What an awful situation to be in. It is always going to be hard when you don't have the same dreams for the future.

As has been suggested to you before I think it would be worth planning a trip there so he can see what the place is like for real and what opportunities are there for you both.

MB's other idea of planning it as a temporary thing of a year or two rather than saying we are moving and never coming back could be another way have bringing him around.

What do your kids (that are coming with you) think about making the move- maybe they could persuade him if it is what they want to.

I hope things settle down for you soon and you can sort something out- even if it is a lengthy holiday to start with.

Chin up!!!
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