Hi Nicky,
This is Pulsarblu. Yes I agreed with Motherbear. Me and my wife visited NZ before finally making the move. I am all ready to make the move but she was not so sure mainly because she has a good job, a good boss, some really good friends and you know the sounds, smell and feel of Singapore.
However once we are here in NZ (only for two weeks holiday), she feel that this is what we wanted and there are many things really good about NZ. Obviously we cannot compared Singapore and NZ because they are not the same. Being here for more than a year now has been amazing. What really convince us was the "fact finding" trip/holiday for two weeks, the interaction we have with the locals and the places we went to.
And also perhaps encourage him that without challenges (moving to NZ), there will be no advancement or progress. There maybe other challenges that you can take on in your current country of residence but I am sure with a positive outlook and open mind, your move to NZ will be the most memorable experience in your life.
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