[KiwiHopeful]

I wish I could say something pithy and wise, but I can't. We've been lucky that our family has been *mostly* supportive, and at worst they have only tried to guilt us a little bit.

I think that ultimately, Jon and Lou, the two of you have to weigh in your hearts what you feel is best for your family and live the life that *you* choose--otherwise, there will only be regret and bitterness.

I'll keep wishing you--and especially your mother (in-law)--good karma!