Don't be silly Lou!
This may sound selfish/horrible/awful/insert issue here, but if you decide to stay where you are because of her, what happens when she eventually passes away? She would have had her way, and you'll then be left in a position where it could well be too late to get a better life, not only for you but for your children too.
As much as anyone should love and respect their parents, when they would deny you and your children a better future (I don't specifically mean NZ, but any decision in life), then there's only one person they are really concerned about.
If there's one thing in life thats 100% guaranteed - it's only you that will live your future, so get on and do it.
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Taffy
The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one.
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