[nickydwuk]

Thanks for the kind words of support & advice. I spoke to my daughter at length today - I have 3 boys and she is my only girl. She said she can't give me a cast iron guarantee that she would come out when she has finished her training. If she meets someone here she would probably stay but as she said they may then decide to move over later. She reassured me that we would always be part of her life regardless of where we were - such an old head on young shoulders (she is only 17)

Like Taffy said - if we don't go there is no drive for anyone to travel. We don't know what the future holds - I have already thought that the kids may move away when they grow up so this would be no different. Still hard though

My oldest son has already talked about moving to Spain to live - he is full of b******t sometimes and bright ideas he concocts with his mates. But he is adventurous and if he doesn't move to NZ with us he would probably move elsewhere in time. ( I don't mean it).

Just need to get my head round it and for OH to get used to it.