Hi Nick,
As MB says, not an easy thing to do. All I can really say is if you stay in the UK, you'll all definately stay in the UK as there'll be no drive, and everyone loses out. If you move out, and they follow, all's well. If they don't follow, and you find you can't be apart from them when the grandkids thing happens, well at least you gave New Zealand a try - and will have an awesome experience to tell the grand kids about!!
So I say do it, live it and see how it goes. If they know how much you love it, it will give them the drive to follow.
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Taffy
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