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Originally Posted by loopylu
Just re-read this thread and realised I missed your comments first time around Dawn... don't worry I have every intention of "making him do as he's told" but as always you've got to make them think it's their decision and have been using various psychological theories to help convince him to even take this first step...!!!
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Lucy, you originally pointed out that your OH was really really close to his family. Do you envisage any problems with them pulling him back to the UK or aren't they 'that sort of family' and would be happy just to see him happy? It's just something that crossed my mind, but I guess if he's been away 'on holiday' for 12 months they'll have got used to not having him around and the same goes for him, so maybe all will work out well in the end. Digits crossed for you.
Could be a good idea to do a language course in Mexico as the South American Spanish is a bit different to European Spanish.