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You are obviously the do gooder type!!!!!!!!!

I really dont care about other people...................I am concerned about myself and my family!!!!!!!!! If I dont care for them who will.

By the way I didnt say I looked like a hag without cosmetics. What I said was I was not prepared to let my skin suffer in 'the sun' as I couldnt afford skin care products. In actual fact I consider myself above average beauty and extremely attractive!!! So please dont feel sorry for me, I have been very well blessed.

I didnt have my heart set on NZ either it was always going to be a stepping stone, it is Australia that I want to live in but they do not require research scientists. And therefore it was impossible to get through their immigration system.

I think this is turning nasty and probably should not continue, but thanks for your valued imput. ;)