:o I thought I had it bad with my daughter's dad. You must have been at your wits end. How on earth could he stop you selling your house, sorry being nosey, that is just frightening.

I just want to get going now and I don't really know if I want a party, my daughter does and my friends won't forgive me if I don't. They have all been inviting themselves to NZ. Don't know where they are going to stay as I only have a 2 bedroom flat at present. Yes, I have an address, woopee!!

Don't know about R & R was supposed to do a carboot Sunday but we are getting weather from the Arctic, can here the wind howling outside.

I am now at the mercy of immigration, they know I have a job and when I start work. By the way, I got the paperwork from the midwifery council today, that's less than a week from New Zealand.
Thanks everyone for your support and will give you an update soon.
Vee