I think you have hit the nail on the head, my soul is weary and I think it's about time my luck changed. Maybe the luck is in New Zealand. I have been a single mum for about 10 years with a marriage, although it was short in between, he was away all the time anyway. I look at the pictures on here and Glenda's blog and it helps me to focus on what I want for me and my daughter.

Your mother in law is being selfish, she should want what makes her son happy. My mum and family are wishing me the best and want me to go, hang on, I think they are trying to get rid of me :o
Vee