Hey Vee, you seem to have had a real time of it this last year. I'll bet your soul is weary, sounds to me like you owe yourself a whole heap of 'special me' time and I know how hard that is to come by when you're a lone parent going through a complete life change. You even have to start your new job before you'll have time to familiarise yourself with your new surroundings!! Talk about pushing yourself to the limit!

And as for the party thing, I have a feeling that Garys mum will want to arrange something like this and we want to just go, no fuss, no fanfare, no, snotty tissue waving, no big deal. We reckon we're gonna tell her that we're leaving a week later than we are so that she's unable to spring any surprises. She hates me and has accused me of talking her little boy into leaving her!!!! Sad old drama queen!!

I'm not really as harsh as I may seem [smiley=077.gif]