I know what u mean. my mum is quite upset and all i wan to do is tell her all our exciting news but don't wanna say to much and upset here. we talk every day on the phone and i guess we won't be able to do hat now. also they won't ever be able to afford to visit so will all be don to us to visit them. never know. maybe we will be able to sponsor them to move over permantly if we stay...

we said if we hate it or run out of money (not that we have a budget or any money but hoping on work) we will come home sooner but as i said we think we will prob stay and they think we will too.

and as u said else where will be great place to bring up kids if we ever get round to haing them.