Hubby and I are thinking of stopping off in Kuala Lumper for a week before we decend on NZ for 2 yrs.

Has anyone taken a holiday before going across, would you recommend it?

I'm just a bit worried about saying our goodbyes to our friends and family, going off to KL for a week then getting back on the plane again and landing in NZ and having to start our new life, find jobs, place to stay, car etc.

I just dont know if it would be less stressful to go straght to NZ and holiday there for a week or so before settling down somewhere for a bit.

I dont know if I'm just stressing about nothing but it would be good to hear if anyone else has gone through this and if it made their move less stressful or just added to it?

Any advice would be great...