Nononono!!!! Not to long by any stretch. Especially with 2 boys ourselves who will face the same problems yours are in several year time. It must be soo hard doing by yourself at the moment and you should be admired for coping so well as you evidentally are. Keep us posted as ever hands on information from people there is so comforting for us hoping to make the move. I'll show your thread to Claire and she'll be really appreciative.