Keep on truckin?, Fisheress. It?ll come together in time. I think the way I hear children are often settling so quickly in NZ is a lesson to us all. For the most part I think they accept it as it is, rather than trying to think of it or make it an extension of their previous country.

It hasn?t been the best start for you with having your hubby back in the UK and you?ve had to face a lot of the challenges alone. Hope it won?t be too much longer and he?ll be returning to NZ to help you out. Is he still working in the UK or just chilling out whilst waiting for the house to sell?