[muddywheels]

Thanks for your reply Mother Bear, not what we were wanting to hear as you can imagine. Quite a traumatic week for us. We know it's the right decision for us, but it's still emotional to think we have to leave people behind, especially when they so want to come with us.
We are just applying for our visas now ............will let you know how we get on, fingers crossed. [smilie=Best_wishes.gif]