Nice family photo Skybluearmy. At least you still managed a smile despite hurting badly inside.
Selchie, here's a link which explains Skybluearmy's great sadness on this day.
http://movetonz.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=902
It was before I started posting on this forum, but I'd read it and felt terribly upset for him, as I knew just how he felt. Hope it's eased a little, at least, Skybluearmy.