Families!!!
Father in law is supportive (even though he's not too well and has been on deaths door numerous times with 3 Heart attacks, open heart surgery etc, etc) as he's visted a few times in the merchant navy and would have loved to have done it himself, still goes on how beautiful a country it was, Mother in law is supportive but I know she is pretty devastated as she loves all our kids and the OH and leaves prettty close. It's too far to travel for them to visit.
She sees her brother once in a blue moon at Xmas for 30mins so no love lost there.
I haven't told my parents as yet until I get a few things sorted out and if it all falls through :icon_frown: I wasn't invited to my brothers wedding so it's not like he'll miss me, I see my sister a few times a year (she keeps forgetting to send the kids B'day cards and we have never once forgotten any of hers, sore subject this one). So the main issue with us apart from friends is the OH missing her MIL.
And if she ever reads that "spider" post someone put on, there's not a hope in hell of her even visiting NZ!!!!
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