Families!!!
I am so glad that his case has fallen through. I know it may be hard, but try and view it as a man desperately in love with his family that he doesn't want to lose. Yes he was selfish, but it was driven by not wanting to lose those he cares about the most. Ironically his trying to do that, may just have done what he hoped to prevent.
th I have given up trying to get on, at the age of 36 I have finally realised, she wont change, he wont change and to stop blaming myself for their shortcomings. Oh no doubt we will be polite, but she will never come out to visit and I doubt I will spend the money to come here again. Oh if I miraculously became pregnant, that would be another matter - she is desperate from grandchildren and "adopts" any child she can as a grandchild. At the same time telling me that it doesn't matter I can't have kids. I just love my nose being rubbed in it every kiddie story she tells me. :icon_twisted:
sorry rambling again.
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