Hi Welshgirl

Thanks for the reply it makes me feel a lot better, as Ian has just said, just the fact that they are allowed to be children sold it for him. There is too much peer pressure on our young people today to grow up too fast. We have had no end of trauma with our 14 year old girl and we didn't want to have to go through similar issues with the other two girls. Getting them away seems like the right thing to do. My parents are very supportive of our decision which helps, although it will be hard to leave them. I think everyone else thinks we are crazy.

It's nice to know other people are there living the life and are happy, as you so obviously are.